In this week's Sex Talk Realness, four anonymous women get real about what it's really like to be a bisexual female in this day and age. Woman A: Twenty-eight. Woman B: Twenty-one. Woman C: Twenty-two.
The pause was maybe two seconds, but it spoke volumes. My first date with a woman happened in I had no idea what to do or say and found myself just nodding along while nursing my drink, wondering if this was what life was going to be like as a bisexual woman: dates with lots of women who just want to complain about being bisexual. Then I got Tinder. Your bisexuality will immediately be the focus of most conversations with straight men.
When you're coming out of the closet, it can be hard to know where to meet other lesbians or bisexual women. If you're not sure where to begin, start with this list of the places where you're most likely to run into other lesbians and bisexual women. In many cities and small towns, the only place to meet other lesbians may be in the lesbian bar. You may find an open mic or karaoke night.