I'm a year-old male student and I'm gay. I came out fairly recently and I'm feeling optimistic about my love life. I've received a decent amount of sexual interest from other gay men and would like to have a relationship. But I'm terrified of bottoms. The thought of anal sex fills me with fear and is a serious turn-off.
Anal sex has become conflated with the male gay or bisexual experience — so much so that the top-vs-bottom question is often the first talking point in Grindr chats. And so much so that people think you have to be into anal to be a gay or bi man just as they think you have to be a gay or bi man to be into anal. In fact, in a study of men who have sex with men — a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in — less than 40 percent of respondents had engaged in anal intercourse during their last sexual event. To limit oneself to just a single flavor is to shut out a smorgasbord of new experiences.
I Genuinely Like Anal Sex—and I’m Tired of Feeling Bad About It
Sign up or log in to share. Most guys ruin a woman for anal sex because all the guy can think about is getting his cock in her ass. Well guys, how about you taking a dildo and put it in your ass and see how you like it!