Guys and losing virginity
Be that their most memorable experience, their favourite position, or their go-to sex toy. This article comes as the first of our new series, We Asked Guys. After months of dating, kissing and heavy petting we decided that the time was right. We decided to do it at my house as her mother was at home as she was a teacher and it was the summer holidays. Me and my girlfriend were upstairs in my room and the moment just felt right.
We asked guys what it was like to lose their virginity
What's Losing Your Virginity Like For A Guy? 14 Straight And Gay Men Share Their Experiences
In order to help debunk some of the harmful and confusing myths around the subject, we spoke to a variety of sex experts, psychologists and regular people about what losing your virginity means, and how to go about getting it done the right way. The concept of losing your virginity is not as simple as many people make it out to be. Traditionally, losing your virginity has meant engaging in penetrative sexual intercourse, whether penis-in-vagina or penis-in-anus. However, not everyone sees it as that. But there is great variation and it seems young folks are more open to seeing sex as an experience that can involve a range of acts — not simply a singular one. So are hand jobs. Mutual masturbation masturbating together or masturbating each other can be considered sex.
25 Men Describe What It Felt Like To Lose Their Virginity
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I lost my virginity to someone I loved, and to this day, I feel very lucky for that. As a gay man, I had always figured my first time wouldn't be special; that the expectation that two men would be down to bang immediately after getting together would cheapen my experience. Luckily, I was wrong. Still, as a man, everything I had learned about sex in the media up to that point had taught me that I was supposed to feel next-to-nothing the first time that I had sex; that it didn't matter for me in the long run the way it seemed to for women. Movies like American Pie and Porkey's taught me and my peers that young men are supposed to sleep with as many women as they can — and love it.